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Ting Tong means
"crazy" in thai language. If someone is stupid thai people use the world
"ting tong" about that man (because of some strange reason the world
"ting tong" is not used for women?). Mama Suphat tells pappa Göran he is
"ting tong" almost every day.
Many men from europe (west) get ting tong when they meet a beautiful thai girl, think they have won on lottery. He thinks he has a girl who will cock for him, clean his house, wash the laundry... but he doesn't realise that all the family of the girl will move in very soon.
This nice guy met a girl on Internet, and her name happens to be Ting Tong. They meet for the first time...
Big big love... but everyone who have been married know what happens after the wedding rings are changed. One start to discover new things about each other. Our dear friend finds out that Ting Tong isn't Ting Tong...
"her" name is Tong Ting.
In west it's very important to be honest, a man who stands for his world is a real man. In Asia it's much more important to save ones face. Small lies are part of everyday life. Our dear friend finds out that Ting Tongs home village isn't Pong Pong... she is from Too Ping (small lie again). Many Thai/Falang marriages finish in catastroph because different ideas about the world
"truth". (falang = thai word for western man).
Another big difference between east and west is privacy. In west everyone need to have their own room, somewhere where you can close the door and be alone. In Thailand the word privacy dosen't excist. When Mr Johans aunt and oncle visit us papa Göran, mama Suphat, Mr Johan and 18 year old brother Khankau all sleep in the same bedroom. Everybody is comfortable and happy with this arrangement. We also eat from the same plate, share everything that we have.
In west (Scandinavia) you can read in newspapers about some old man that have died a half year ago in his appartment... and nobody discovered it. Lonelyness is a big problem in west. That's one reason why papa Göran like to live in Thailand, he want to live and die with family and friends around.
But our dear friend gets upset when he finds out that Ting Tongs mother is moving in, disturbing his privacy...
... many Thai/Farang relations end when the dear hubby finds out that the lovely lady take 100% control of his life. Our romantic friend gets a chock when he find out that Ting Tong and her family have opened a restaurant in his flat... thai ladies are often very businessminded.
Long live the cultural chocks :)